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Activity Experience (yes/no) Giver or Receiver
(preference, if applies)
Willingness (NO or 0-5) Notes and Nuances
Abrasion Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Age play Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Anal sex Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Anal plugs (small) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Anal plugs (large) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Anal plug (public, under clothes) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Animal roles Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Aromas Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Asphyxiation Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Auctioned for charity Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Ball stretching Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Bathroom use control Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Beastiality Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Beating (soft) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Beating (hard) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Blindfolds Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Being serviced (sexual) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Being bitten Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Boot worship Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Bondage (light) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Bondage (heavy) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Bondage (multi-day) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Bondage (public, under clothing) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Branding Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Breast/chest bondage Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Breast whipping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Breath control Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Brown showers (scat) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Bruises Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cages (locked inside of) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Caning Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Castration fantasy Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Catheterization Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cattle prod (electrical toy) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Chains Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Chamber-pot use Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Chastity belts (short term) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Chastity belts (multi-day) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Chauffeuring (driving) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Choking Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Chores (domestic service) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Clothespins Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cock rings/straps Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cock worship Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Collars (worn in private) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Collars (worn in public) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Competitions (with other Subs) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Corsets (wearing casually) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Corsets (trained waist reduction) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cross-dressing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cuffs (leather) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cuffs (metal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Cutting Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Diapers (wearing) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Diapers (wetting) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Diapers (soiling) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Dilation Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Dildoes Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Double penetration Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Electricity Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Enemas (for cleansing) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Enemas (retention/punishment) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Enforced chastity Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Erotic dance (for audience) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Examinations (physical) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Exercise (forced/required) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Exhibitionism (friends) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Exhibitionism (strangers) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Eye contact restrictions Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Face slapping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Fantasy abandonment Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Fantasy rape Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Fantasy gang-rape Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Fear (being scared) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Fisting (anal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Fisting (vaginal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Flame play Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Following orders Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Foot worship Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced bedwetting Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced dressing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced eating Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced homosexuality Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced heterosexuality Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced masturbation Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced nudity (private) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced nudity (around others) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced servitude Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Forced smoking Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Full head hoods Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gags (cloth) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gags (inflatable) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gags (phallic) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gags (rubber) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gags (tape) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gas masks Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gates of Hell (male) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Genital sex Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Given away to another Dom (temp) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Given away to another Dom (perm) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Golden showers Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Gun play Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hairbrush spankings Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hair pulling Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hand jobs (giving) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hand jobs (receiving) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Harems (serving w/other subs) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Harnessing (leather) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Harnessing (rope) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Having food chosen for you Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Having clothing chosen for you Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
High heel wearing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
High heel worship Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hoods Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hot oils (on genitals) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hot waxing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Housework (doing) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Human puppy dog Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Humiliation (private) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Humiliation (public) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Hypnotism Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Ice cubes Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Immobilization Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Infantilism Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Initiation rites Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Injections Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Interrogations Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Kidnaping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Kneeling Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Knife play Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Leather clothing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Leather restraints Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Lectures for misbehavior Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Licking (non-sexual) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Lingerie (wearing) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Manacles & Irons Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Manicures (giving) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Massage (giving) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Massage (receiving) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Medical scenes Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Modeling for erotic photos Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Mouth bits Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Mummification Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Name change (for scene) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Name change (legal, permanent) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Nipple clamps Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Nipple rings (piercings) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Nipple play/"torture" Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Nipple weights Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Oral/anal play (rimming) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Over-the-knee spanking Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Orgasm denial Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Orgasm control Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Outdoor scenes Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Outdoor sex Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Pain (mild) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Pain (medium) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Pain (severe) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Persona training (in scene) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Personality modification (RL) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Phone sex (serving Dom) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Phone sex (commercial provider) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Piercing (permanent) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Plastic surgery Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Prison scenes Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Prostitution (public pretense) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Prostitution (actual) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Pony slave Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Public exposure Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Punishment Scene Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Pussy/cock whipping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Pussy worship Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Riding crops Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Rituals Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Religious scenes Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Restrictive rules on behavior Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Rubber/latex clothing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Rope body harness Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Saran wrapping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Scarification Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Scratching - getting Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Scratching - giving Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Sensory deprivation Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as art Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as ashtray Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as furniture Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as a maid Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as toilet (urine) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as toilet (feces) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving as waitress/waiter Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving orally (sexual) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving other doms (supervised) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Serving other doms (unsupervised) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Sexual deprivation (short term) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Sexual deprivation (long term) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Shaving (body hair) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Shaving (genital hair) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Shaving (head hair) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Skinny-dipping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Sleep deprivation Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Sleepsacks Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Slutty clothing (private) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Slutty clothing (public) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Spandex clothing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Spanking Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Speech restrictions (when, what) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Speculums (Anal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Speculums (vaginal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Spitting Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Spreader bars Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Standing in corner Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Stocks Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Straight jackets Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Strapping (full body beating) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Suspension (upright) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Suspension (inverted) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Suspension (horizontal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Supplying new partners for Dom Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Swallowing feces Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Swallowing semen Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Swallowing urine Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Swapping (with one other couple) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Swinging (multiple couples) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Tampon Training (in ass) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Tattooing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Teasing Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
TENS Unit (electrical toy) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Thumbcuffs (metal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Tickling Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Triple penetration Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Uniforms Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Including others Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Vaginal dildo Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Verbal humiliation Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Vibrator on genitals Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Violet Wand (electrical toy) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Voyeurism (watching others) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Video (watching others) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Video (recordings of you) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Water torture Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Waxing (hair removal) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Wearing symbolic jewelry Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Weight gain (forced) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Weight loss (forced) Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Whipping Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Wooden paddles Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5
Wrestling Yes No Top Bottom No 0 1 2 3 4 5