Activity | Experience (yes/no) | Giver or Receiver (preference, if applies) |
Willingness (NO or 0-5) | Notes and Nuances |
Abrasion | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Age play | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Anal sex | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Anal plugs (small) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Anal plugs (large) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Anal plug (public, under clothes) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Animal roles | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Aromas | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Asphyxiation | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Auctioned for charity | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Ball stretching | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Bathroom use control | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Beastiality | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Beating (soft) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Beating (hard) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Blindfolds | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Being serviced (sexual) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Being bitten | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Boot worship | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Bondage (light) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Bondage (heavy) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Bondage (multi-day) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Bondage (public, under clothing) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Branding | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Breast/chest bondage | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Breast whipping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Breath control | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Brown showers (scat) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Bruises | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cages (locked inside of) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Caning | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Castration fantasy | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Catheterization | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cattle prod (electrical toy) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Chains | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Chamber-pot use | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Chastity belts (short term) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Chastity belts (multi-day) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Chauffeuring (driving) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Choking | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Chores (domestic service) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Clothespins | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cock rings/straps | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cock worship | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Collars (worn in private) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Collars (worn in public) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Competitions (with other Subs) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Corsets (wearing casually) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Corsets (trained waist reduction) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cross-dressing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cuffs (leather) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cuffs (metal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Cutting | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Diapers (wearing) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Diapers (wetting) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Diapers (soiling) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Dilation | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Dildoes | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Double penetration | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Electricity | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Enemas (for cleansing) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Enemas (retention/punishment) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Enforced chastity | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Erotic dance (for audience) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Examinations (physical) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Exercise (forced/required) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Exhibitionism (friends) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Exhibitionism (strangers) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Eye contact restrictions | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Face slapping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Fantasy abandonment | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Fantasy rape | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Fantasy gang-rape | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Fear (being scared) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Fisting (anal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Fisting (vaginal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Flame play | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Following orders | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Foot worship | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced bedwetting | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced dressing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced eating | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced homosexuality | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced heterosexuality | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced masturbation | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced nudity (private) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced nudity (around others) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced servitude | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Forced smoking | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Full head hoods | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gags (cloth) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gags (inflatable) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gags (phallic) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gags (rubber) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gags (tape) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gas masks | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gates of Hell (male) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Genital sex | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Given away to another Dom (temp) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Given away to another Dom (perm) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Golden showers | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Gun play | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hairbrush spankings | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hair pulling | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hand jobs (giving) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hand jobs (receiving) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Harems (serving w/other subs) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Harnessing (leather) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Harnessing (rope) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Having food chosen for you | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Having clothing chosen for you | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
High heel wearing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
High heel worship | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hoods | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hot oils (on genitals) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hot waxing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Housework (doing) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Human puppy dog | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Humiliation (private) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Humiliation (public) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Hypnotism | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Ice cubes | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Immobilization | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Infantilism | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Initiation rites | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Injections | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Interrogations | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Kidnaping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Kneeling | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Knife play | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Leather clothing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Leather restraints | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Lectures for misbehavior | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Licking (non-sexual) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Lingerie (wearing) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Manacles & Irons | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Manicures (giving) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Massage (giving) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Massage (receiving) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Medical scenes | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Modeling for erotic photos | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Mouth bits | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Mummification | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Name change (for scene) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Name change (legal, permanent) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Nipple clamps | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Nipple rings (piercings) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Nipple play/"torture" | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Nipple weights | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Oral/anal play (rimming) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Over-the-knee spanking | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Orgasm denial | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Orgasm control | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Outdoor scenes | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Outdoor sex | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Pain (mild) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Pain (medium) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Pain (severe) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Persona training (in scene) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Personality modification (RL) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Phone sex (serving Dom) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Phone sex (commercial provider) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Piercing (permanent) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Plastic surgery | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Prison scenes | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Prostitution (public pretense) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Prostitution (actual) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Pony slave | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Public exposure | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Punishment Scene | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Pussy/cock whipping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Pussy worship | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Riding crops | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Rituals | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Religious scenes | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Restrictive rules on behavior | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Rubber/latex clothing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Rope body harness | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Saran wrapping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Scarification | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Scratching - getting | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Scratching - giving | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Sensory deprivation | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as art | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as ashtray | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as furniture | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as a maid | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as toilet (urine) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as toilet (feces) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving as waitress/waiter | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving orally (sexual) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving other doms (supervised) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Serving other doms (unsupervised) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Sexual deprivation (short term) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Sexual deprivation (long term) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Shaving (body hair) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Shaving (genital hair) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Shaving (head hair) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Skinny-dipping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Sleep deprivation | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Sleepsacks | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Slutty clothing (private) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Slutty clothing (public) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Spandex clothing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Spanking | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Speech restrictions (when, what) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Speculums (Anal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Speculums (vaginal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Spitting | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Spreader bars | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Standing in corner | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Stocks | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Straight jackets | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Strapping (full body beating) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Suspension (upright) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Suspension (inverted) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Suspension (horizontal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Supplying new partners for Dom | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Swallowing feces | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Swallowing semen | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Swallowing urine | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Swapping (with one other couple) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Swinging (multiple couples) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Tampon Training (in ass) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Tattooing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Teasing | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
TENS Unit (electrical toy) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Thumbcuffs (metal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Tickling | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Triple penetration | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Uniforms | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Including others | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Vaginal dildo | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Verbal humiliation | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Vibrator on genitals | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Violet Wand (electrical toy) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Voyeurism (watching others) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Video (watching others) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Video (recordings of you) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Water torture | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Waxing (hair removal) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Wearing symbolic jewelry | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Weight gain (forced) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Weight loss (forced) | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Whipping | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Wooden paddles | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 | |
Wrestling | Yes No | Top Bottom | No 0 1 2 3 4 5 |